| This article appeared in Mpls/St Paul Magazine In the early days of television, broadcasters didn't have the high-tech gadgets of today. But they did have unique personalities, like that of WCCO-TV's Toby Prin. Along with thousands of other midwestern viewers, I watched his                round, jolly face smiling on the 19 inch black-and white screen.                His bald head gleamed from the WCCO-TV studio's bright lights. His                voice crooned the bubbly strains of "Doggie in the Window"                over the speaker. As the camera tilted down to my father's stubby                fingers stroking the keys of the Baldwin piano, I heard his familiar                refrain—the words so many neighbors, friends and strangers                across the miles of Minnesota and Wisconsin prairies and forests                knew so well—"And now another Mailbox Melodies tune for                you folks out there."  It was broadcast news of a folksier variety in 1954 when                WCCO-TV personality Toby Prin entertained young viewers with songs                on the live daily program "Mailbox Melodies."
 Eight hours later, at 1:30 that morning, I was                awakened by our creaky garage door opening. From my bed I heard                the door bang shut and my dad's nonbroadcast voice in the kitchen.                In his raspy, weary, cigar-chewing muttering, I detected him searching                for my mom's rice pudding hidden somewhere in the refrigerator.                This was his nightly ritual: Toby Prin's arrival home after another                18-hour day. Later, as he did every so often, he came into my bedroom and whispered,                "Good night, Johnny." Most times I was asleep, as were                my brothers, Tommy and Dave, who were also on his appointed rounds.                But sometimes I felt the touch of his pudgy hand on my cheek. I                peeked from behind sleepy eyelids and saw the loving look on his                face. What I didn't see were the wrinkles from heart spasms and                intestinal aches that he hid so well. The year was 1954. I was 10 years old. We lived in a tiny white                colonial home in St. Louis Park. In the mid-1950s, almost everybody who was anybody in the area                had a TV set. The earliest models, 7-inch screens with flickering                shadow images and scratchy-sounding speakers, were fast being replaced                by fancier 17- or 19-inch models. As the new medium grew, so did                Dad's public prominence. In a restaurant or a store, fans young and old would shake Toby's                hand, eagerly ask for his autograph and buzz excitedly about seeing                their friends on last week's talent show. It never occurred to me                that I had any choice other than to share Dad with everybody. Dad was a pioneer. He was a celebrity in a boom industry. Although                at home he was plain and unassuming and never dramatic, to the world                he was robust, jolly and larger than life—by appearing regularly                in others' living rooms, he became public property. But he wasn't. Few fans were aware of Dad's collection of hats,                both protection for his bald head as well as expressions of his                character. Nor did they know of his pipe collection—dozens                of finely carved dark woods displayed in racks in our den. People                often assumed he was the life of the party at home. No; he avoided                playing the piano or singing for guests, shrugging like the doctor                who declines to venture a prognosis on his day off. Mostly, Toby                Prin was known for his trademark, an ever-present cigar. Even when                he went swimming, he'd puff away on a Dutch Master or White Owl,                his face upturned comically to prevent it from going out. In my college years, I heard about his early days as an entertainer                on the Iron Range. When we'd visit our aunts and uncles, they would                tell us how he'd played the parlor piano as a boy at his family                home in Michigan, where he was the youngest of nine children born                to an immigrant tin miner from England. Dad later moved to Minnesota                and dated Mom, one of four daughters born to an immigrant laborer                from Sweden. He got his start as a band leader on the Iron Range                in the 1920s, when he used the stage name "Tiny Speck."                It was Mom who persuaded him to seek the success he ultimately found                in Twin Cities radio. His transition to television brought pride                to everyone who was part of his history and "remembered him                when." My fondest memories center on my visits to WCCO's                Ninth Street studio in downtown Minneapolis. I'd ride the bus to                see him in the bustling chaos at Channel 4. He, along with the other                "names," would be so busy that he couldn't take more than                a second away from his basement cubicle to say hello before whisking                me upstairs to the Client Room, a plush cavelike chamber reserved                for bigwigs. There the privileged few could sit in oversized swivel                chairs and observe the studio's goings-on through immense plate-glass                windows. I loved my view of the enchanted kingdom beyond: the soundproofed                realm of monitors, microphones, cameras, cables, boom arms, cardboard                sets-crowned, of course, by the blinking red "On-TheAir"                sign. From this vantage point I spied Cedric Adams, monarch of WCCO's                monochromatic empire and erstwhile columnist for the Minneapolis                Star; Rollie Johnson, the freckled, bespectacled spokesman for sports;                Bud Kraehling, the court jester of fair weather; John Gallos, the                town crier; and Arlie Haberle, the first lady of fashion and society.                I remember the day when a new face, a young announcer named Dave                Moore, distinguished himself as a budding prince of broadcast news                and commentary. On the monitor screens flanking the technical director's domain,                there also appeared competitors KSTP-TV and WTCN-TV, with their                celebrities in clear view: Randy Merriman, champion of charm and                game-show smiles; Mel Jass, all fast-moving hands and fast-talking                sales pitches; and Casey Jones (Roger Awsumb), the kids'-show host                in his too-clean overalls and cap. All these celebrities and charmers graced the black-and-white                world of live ballyhoo and bloopers where my father, the chubby                minstrel of Channel 4, also made his living. The good times didn't last long. Late in 1956, I sat stunned,                along with Mom, Tommy and David in the Physicians and Surgeons Building                across from the WCCO-TV studio. We tried to absorb the news that                Dad was diabetic and had a serious heart ailment. At 51, his overweight                and overwork were doing more than making him drowsy, cranky and                forgetful —they were taxing his health to the danger point. Our family had just finished the 18-month process of building                a huge house in faraway Edina, then an untamed suburb of expansive                lots with expensive country-style elegance. From the day we moved in, Dad spent more and more time in doctors'                offices, and the expenses of both new home and hospital visits became                as burdensome as his efforts to fight fatigue, blackouts, high blood                pressure, nerve blocks and, eventually, the amputation of his right                leg. Dad's working days at WCCO dwindled into unemployment. His best                known show, Stillicious Talent Hunt, which he hosted as Uncle Toby                for mobs of kids on Saturday mornings, went off the air because                of his absences. When four months at the Mayo Clinic brought only                a backlog of bills, my brothers and I secured jobs at local stores                and restaurants. Mom, who had worked at Dayton's for three years,                was promoted to full-time interior decorator at the Southdale store. In 1960 we had to sell our Edina home and move to a smaller place                like our earlier home. We all hoped Dad would get better, but the                decline in his strength and weight and spirit were inexorable. The                Dad we saw daily had the same smile and soft glow in his eyes, but                his rosy cheeks were sagging and the torment in his soul had dimmed                any sparkle in his temperament. During my daily visits to Methodist Hospital (room 318), I gazed                at his wasted-away torso (he was now 90 pounds, down from 355 pounds                eight years before). I grimaced at the irony of his having become                a real "Tiny Speck." The whole family knew he would never leave that room again. I                longed for the same loving, caring look in his eyes as when I was                younger. But, on a dismal November day in 1965, at age 59, he died. My main impression was of Dad working all day downtown at the                station and his seldom being home, of his playing the piano or organ                at nightclubs and bars from eight in the evening until one in the                morning, and his entertaining at private parties or special affairs                on his night off. The regret of our "missed" times together                depressed me. He'd so seldom "been there," and he was                from the generation of fathers, like his father before him, who                just never told his kids that he loved them. Yet one final memory surfaced. His faithful record of attendance                at my high school hockey games was remarkable because I was the                second-string varsity goalie for perennial power Edina. This meant                I suited up for every game but sat on the sidelines. As the season                reached an end, my chance finally came. Nervously, but competently,                I stopped a flurry of enemy shots. The crowd jumped to its feet.                The cheerleaders hollered my name. And Dad, standing on his artificial                leg, whooped and hollered along with the rest of them. For that                moment he had "been there," and the love in his eyes shined. 
 This article appeared in Mpls/St                Paul Magazine-March 1988 |